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I Am For The People!: Love

Is it better to have loved then lost, than to never love at all? Apparently, lots of people have an opinion on this and I'd say it's pretty much split down the middle. Most said, never love at all. But of course, those are the people that got burned, pretty severely. A lot said love then lost, for reasons of their own, and I'm going to vouch for them!
In what I would call one of the biggest meltdowns of my life, my recent broken heart this summer has proved to me that it is so much better to have loved once before, and then lose it, than to never ever get a chance to love that person at all. Because, regardless of an outcome, LOVE is the number one learning experience. Love changes you; your thoughts, actions, words and ways, and can be down right scary! When it's good, it's heaven; when it's shaky, your heart shakes with it, and tries to hold on for dear life.
By going through this massive heart surgery, I had to suffer the pain of losing my love to a beautiful young lady, with knockers the size of Texas, ugh! I suffered the pain and agony of self-embarrassment through multiple texts, emails, and calls... trying to figure out what the hell "I" did wrong? In this process of trying to win my man back, I came across as a crazy, insane, maybe even manipulative individual that I actually didn't know at all. Or, maybe i just wasn't aware of it.
The pain that I felt is unlike anything I ever felt before. And it was one of the most rewarding things I have ever experienced in my life. Through that broken heart, I learned a lot about me that I would have never known. And because of that, great change occurred! So, in my opinion, it is so much better to love and then lose, than to never love at all, because if you don't lose in LOVE, how the hell are you going to find out all the love that life has stored up for you; just waiting for you to open it?