My Wise Son...

I Am For The People!: Life's Situations

Anyone who knows my son should know that he is way beyond his years, in a good way. He's smart, he knows things. Besides what you know about him, my psychic can vouch for that. She said he's been here before. You know, I learn a lot from him, I listen to him and I hope that he does the same with me. But Geeze Louise, this kid be dropping some knowledge. And it's often the subject of some real life truths.

So, I had another epiphany ya'll☺. One night a little while ago me and Skylar were taking lots of pics with the camera. It was like 1am or something I had just came in the house. He likes to make these crazy faces in all his pictures and then crack up at the sight of it! So, I was having a bad day all day for a reason that I now do not remember. But seeing him making these beyond weird, annoying, funny faces really did cheer me up! We were looking at a pic of me and him and he says to me, "A lot to live for, Long life to live". I looked at him, said you are correct or something like it, put him to bed and then went in my room. I thought about what he said. Then I said, wait, who has a long life ahead, and who has a lot to live for?? No sir. But my son is right. 100% right. You have to decide what that statement means to you. So even though I really don't want anyone seeing these pictures, I have to show you the type of Jim Carey humor my son has. He's hilarious!! A trait from me of course!






So about my epiphany. Do you see what is going on around us? I don't even watch the news and I know what's going on. People are dying, for various reasons. I mean 10 years ago humans weren't just dying off like this. Today we are getting swatted like flies! Do you notice that everything is so extreme now. We are living in the future and I truly think it is survival of the fittest human, the fittest to live in the Age of the Aquarius. ( Like I said, reeeeaaaad about it, Google it or something). All I know is whatever you choose to call it, times a really changing, and rapidly. I mean, the earth isn't going to fall from the Universe, but changes are here, now. You ready?

The Case Of The Dumb Broad!

I Am For The People!: Foolish

I am upset people, and let me tell you why. I don't even know where to begin because this story is so bizarre it boggles my mind. To make a really, really long story short:

There was this guy that my friend was dating, and for some reason, I wasn't too fond of him. They got into some arguments, you know break ups to make ups; that kind of thing, but it was always the same old thing with him. Basically, he didn't want a relationship, she did, he wasn't ready, she was... So I guess they got in a big argument and weren't talking for a few days.
Fast forward to where I come into the picture. I get a call from a guy late night. I had no idea who this man was and he preceded to tell me that we met a while back. He described what I was wearing, told me who I was with and even where we met that night... so how could I argue with him? I was bored, so I talked to him. There was something familiar about him and I also found him interested so I continued to talk to him over the course of about a week. During this week, I brought up many times that his voice sounds familiar, even made a joke about who I thought that he might be, but according to him, he wasn't that guy. Sorry, he said.
We planned to meet so I could know what he looked like, because I had no idea who he was. And let me tell you people, I hardly give out my number, so me not remembering who this person was, really had me wanting to know more about him. Before we were going to meet, I asked him to pick up something for me from the store. He did, and then he called me to tell me that he needed to tell me something before he came over to see me. I'm like, Oh Damn, what could it be? He then tells me that he is who I thought he was and he was too afraid to tell me.WTF? Really. Any normal person would have told him to piss off, don't come and to never call again. But I wanted to look this fool in his face to see what the hell could be going on in his mind that he has to make up a story to try to get with his girls friend behind her back in a very, very, oh so sleazy way. Besides that, I wanted my sh*t from the store! He told me not to tell her, I said sure.
You KNOW whats the first thing I did when he left right!
It took this fucking lame ass dude to sneak into my girls phonebook to get my number and try to get with me, in order for my friend to see how much of a LOSER this guy was.
She didn't talk to him... for at least a few weeks....
Then the lying started... she's talking to him again. Are they screwing? I don't know. But she told me to mind my business, and mind my business is what I intend to do!

You think you're helping out a friend when in actuality, they can't even help themselves. To me, I know what this makes her look like. It's a disgrace. But obviously to her, she doesn't see it my way. You know what they say, love is blind. She is my friend, and she is a dumb broad. But who am I to judge?

Instant Karma? Does It Exist?

I Am For The People!: Karma

Um, hell yes!
If you have no idea what instant karma is, well you are not alone in this. (Please don't confuse this with regular karma, two totally different things!) It seems a lot of people have no idea what instant karma is about. The name kinda speaks for itself right? But how do you reach instant karma, or stay away from it? There is only one way IN and one way OUT.
Seems easy, but actually maintaining your karma can be a very difficult thing to do.
Let's discuss staying away from instant karma first. It's as easy as taking candy from a baby...something that you know you shouldn't do right. So wrong, oh so very wrong. So after you take this candy from the baby, you begin walking down the street and notice that your wallet is missing. F*CK! I mean, you only had $55 in your wallet, but still. That $55 is probably exactly 10x the amount of the cost of the candy you took. Get it? You knew you shouldn't be taking that candy from that baby, but you did it anyway, thus inducing instant karma.
Another example, which happens to be a real life situation:

A friend of mine has a problem, it's called being a victim of the "free99". Even though she knows that she shouldn't be stealing, she does it anyway. Many of us have this difficult problem, and it's hard to admit, or come to terms with it. In her case she knew it was wrong, she felt it was wrong, but she did it anyway. Later that day, she went to the hair salon, and when she came out, the whole front end of her car was smashed up. No one seen anything. Covered? Only liability. DAYUMN. Her estimated total for repairs, $700. That $700 is probably about 10x the amount of the cost of the things that she took from the store.
Are we understanding people?

So, how do you create instant karma? It's one of those things where you have to be oblivious to attain it. So as you can imagine, it seems much harder to reach. But if you are a person that is true to your nature, then it is the simplest thing to maintain in this life. Charity Workers and Volunteers gain a lot of instant karma. Getting a little clearer people? Ok, so you are pissed that your wallet is gone, you're hungry with no money, and the only thing you have to eat is... uh candy. As you are walking down the street, you seen an older woman trip to the ground and drop all of her belongings. You instantly, like a reaction, run to her, help her up, make sure she's okay, and gather her things for her. You continue on your walk, still hungry, a little pissed, happen to look down, and guess what, a $10 bill laying on the side of the gutter. That $10 is probably 10x the minutes it took to help that lady up. OK. WE GET IT NOW? Wonderful!

I'm talking in terms of money, because it's easier to understand. But I know that many things has happened in your life where you felt very lucky, or very unlucky. Guess what people, there's no such thing as luck, There is only karma... and intuition. (We'll get into that another time)

So is there a such thing as instant karma? Does it truly exist? Why don't you try it out people.

The Ladybug Incident

I Am For The People!: Weird


So, I was deciding if I should write about this or not because actually I'm quite upset. To make a really long story short, I woke up last night about 2:30am, sat straight up in my bed, and subconsciously stuck my finger in my left ear. I pulled out something that looked like a black ball. Under normal circumstances, I would have screamed and thrown whatever the hell that thing was and then proceed to freak the f out. But I wanted to know what it was; I turned on the light and it was a dead ladybug. I thought it was the coolest thing! I'm like, "Hmmm, what does this mean", very excitedly. I placed the ladybug on a flat surface and covered it with something. All night I was so excited to think how I would display my favorite insect. I was dreaming about it people! The point is, when I woke up, it was gone... and I was pissed! I did a little research on the internet just in case it meant something special lol. And I found this:

to read the full post go to: http://www.rdadslife.com/forum.html?func=view&catid=13&id=66
"...I took her to the ER and within a few hours the doc had extracted a dead ladybug. My daughter was so upset about the dead bug she could care less about the doc putting drops in her ear. When I asked why the bug was in her ear my daughter replied to me that she could not hear what the ladybug was saying to her because the bugs mouth was so small so she put the bug in her ear to here it better while they were talking!!"



The cutest thing right! This girl is totally someone I would be friends with.

Let's Talk About LUUUVVVVV People!

I Am For The People!: Love

Is it better to have loved then lost, than to never love at all? Apparently, lots of people have an opinion on this and I'd say it's pretty much split down the middle. Most said, never love at all. But of course, those are the people that got burned, pretty severely. A lot said love then lost, for reasons of their own, and I'm going to vouch for them!
In what I would call one of the biggest meltdowns of my life, my recent broken heart this summer has proved to me that it is so much better to have loved once before, and then lose it, than to never ever get a chance to love that person at all. Because, regardless of an outcome, LOVE is the number one learning experience. Love changes you; your thoughts, actions, words and ways, and can be down right scary! When it's good, it's heaven; when it's shaky, your heart shakes with it, and tries to hold on for dear life.
By going through this massive heart surgery, I had to suffer the pain of losing my love to a beautiful young lady, with knockers the size of Texas, ugh! I suffered the pain and agony of self-embarrassment through multiple texts, emails, and calls... trying to figure out what the hell "I" did wrong? In this process of trying to win my man back, I came across as a crazy, insane, maybe even manipulative individual that I actually didn't know at all. Or, maybe i just wasn't aware of it.
The pain that I felt is unlike anything I ever felt before. And it was one of the most rewarding things I have ever experienced in my life. Through that broken heart, I learned a lot about me that I would have never known. And because of that, great change occurred! So, in my opinion, it is so much better to love and then lose, than to never love at all, because if you don't lose in LOVE, how the hell are you going to find out all the love that life has stored up for you; just waiting for you to open it?

You Never Really Know Who Your Friends Are, Until They Don't FACE/SPACE You Back!

I Am For The People!: Random Thoughts

So, I was having this conversation with a friend of mine about these social networking sites that we seem to be addicted to lately. The question of if we are always online checking our pages, why in the hell won't someone comment/wall/etc.. you back? Some see this as rude, I guess. Some don't give a shit; but if the intent of these sites is mostly for networking purposes, not responding back to someone is being non-network friendly.

But what about your supposed friends that don't wal-ment you back? (wal-ment lol. corny!) Some would say it's pretty f'kd up, I guess. And some just really don't give a shit. But I guess if this person is really a friend, then they would find the time to get back to you.

Is face/spacing back something that people really care about? According to my friend, Yes. And after talking to her, I kind of would care too... I guess, depending on the person.

But seriously people, after high school, our lives get so complicated and turned around, we don't have time to do the petty things in life. We do, what we do, when we have time to do it. So it's ultimately up to the person to decide whether they are going to be offended by it or not. So I say, if you feel you really don't know who your friends are until they don't face/space you back, then maybe your, um, right.